On Mon, 21 Jul 2008 18:51:16 -0400, "PolarBear" <carmensk@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
>
wrote:
>My normally so negative husband made a comment this morning which totally
>shocked me. Over the last months he constantly told me how much of an
idiot
>I am for having started smoking again after three years, how weak I am,
how
>disappointed he is and how he is not proud of me. He didn't care that I
>stopped smoking again. Neither was he very sup****tive.
>
>-out of fairness I have to say that he did buy me a Wii game console
under
>the condition that I would save my non smoking money to pay for it
>- he also installed the news group reader on my computer
>
>so this morning he worked on my computer while I got ready and out of no
>where he said: "as much as I was not proud of you, as much I am proud of
you
>now" It took me a while to understand the meaning of it and I looked in
>disbelief at him. Coming from him is strong, he hardly makes any
>compliments. I think he saw my meter in the task bar or maybe I was just
>blind and he was sup****ting me all along just never said anything.
>
>Is he right, can he be proud again of me? YES, YES... he can.
Absolutely! You are doing just great, Carmen. You should be proud of
you, too!
Sue - buster of an 8 year quit some many years ago
>
>HappyPolarBear
>proudly announces the following:
>three weeks, five days, 21 hours, 15 minutes and 2 seconds. 268
cigarettes
>not smoked, saved $110.23 to pay for her Wii.


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