Re: Relation****p problem; advice please

I have had an ostomy for 9 years. I have also had an experience with the so
called "Open Marriage" concept. A word of advice. It doesnt work. If a
woman
loves you, she will not ask you do do such a thing. There are other ways
of
satisfying a woman. If she cant be content with those methods, tell her to
move on. In my experience, those that matter dont mind, and those that
mind
dont matter.

Feel free to contact me if  you need a friend. You sound like you do.

Jim

"Dave111" <nospam@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> wrote in message 
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>I find myself in a quite depressing situation and could do with some
> advice. I had urostomy surgery a few years ago and since then my wife
and
> I have not been ***ually active apart from one attempt that did not go
> well. She has now told me that she'd like to be able to find someone
else
> to have casual *** with because she cannot deal with my urostomy bag. I
> don't know what to do about this. Our relation****p in general is poor,
but
> we have a young family and don't want to split up. I have suggested that

> we
> go to a therapist, but she says it won't help. I know she is very 
> depressed
> and frustrated at having no *** life, but I just don't know if I can
deal
> with her having a physical relation****p with someone else. All comments
> and advice appreciated. Thanks.
>
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