Dave,
Their is another group available to strictly urostomates since we
are way in the minority, and urostomy stuff tends to get overlooked.
You can join the group urostomy2@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
by sending an email
to Urostomy2-subscribe@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
and you can jump in and join
us. My urostomy is just about 20 years old, and though there is
always the option of penile implant available to urostomates, the
wife and I who were married in excess of 20 years at the time,
discussed the condition and opted out of that solution for ***ual
satisfaction. Love can be demonstrated (agreeably) in many ways
under adverse conditions. Additionally, others in the group may be
able to provide you with other 'solutions' to your dilemma. I am
one of two moderators with the group, the other being my bud from
the UK, and I hail from Pensacola, FL. Just don't give up.
--
PcolaPhil
As income tax time approaches, did you ever notice: When you put the
two words "The" and "IRS" together, it spells
"THEIRS"?
"Dave111" <nospam@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
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|I find myself in a quite depressing situation and could do with
some
| advice. I had urostomy surgery a few years ago and since then my
wife and
| I have not been ***ually active apart from one attempt that did
not go
| well. She has now told me that she'd like to be able to find
someone else
| to have casual *** with because she cannot deal with my urostomy
bag. I
| don't know what to do about this. Our relation****p in general is
poor, but
| we have a young family and don't want to split up. I have
suggested that we
| go to a therapist, but she says it won't help. I know she is very
depressed
| and frustrated at having no *** life, but I just don't know if I
can deal
| with her having a physical relation****p with someone else. All
comments
| and advice appreciated. Thanks.
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