On Jun 29, 2:15=A0pm, Vickie <lilliputianbizz...@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> wrote:
> I suppose it is natural to be in a long term relation****p and forget
> the need to tell that special someone that you have pride in who they
> are and what they do.
>
> Is it just thoughtlessness?
> Do some think it takes away some of their own worth if they give out a
> compliment?
>
> http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3D7I5sixwOQlg
>
> Maybe we are led to believe we shouldn't need praise from our spouse,
> that if we have pride in ourself, we shouldn't need to hear it from
> our partner.
>
> That is all well and good, but I think everyone needs to hear it now
> and again.
>
> blah-bu-dee-blah, yep, okay then
>
> Vickie
Vickie,
Recieving encouragement & compliments from our loved ones is wanted
because it's gives us self value through others we love and respect.
When we don't receive this consideration from them we question what
they think of us.
Moving forward sometimes is a must because they might not be able to
give us what we desire.
Placing yourself with people who encourage and lift your spirits is
the key.
Jack Canfield "chicken soup for the soul" recommends making a list of
all the people in your life and then review to see if they are a
positive or negitive to your inner self. You can't always remove these
people from your life, yet you can see it for what it is and find
positive people to place yourself with.
We all need to hear the Good things about ourselves to reach our true
self worth.
Cindi Q.
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