Re: lonely

mom0f4boys <momsh...@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> wrote:
> Doug Freyburger wrote:
>
> > After all you did call the cops on
> > him and that was only two years ago. =A0If I were your
> > husband I would be very withdrawn in my trust after that.
>
>=A0 Calling the police was not a power play.

But egging him on (unacceptable) until he did go
ballistic (also unacceptable) was a power play.  And
the result is he now has a police record but you do
not.  Very convenient should you ever decide to
escallate in a power play.

Using Dr Phil's expression - How's that been working for you?
Are you moved on from using words that hurt?  Are you making
any progress in your mariage?  Have you discussed with him
the long term effects of your confrontations that led to you
calling the police on him to see what hurdles exist on his side
over the events?  Is he seeing any of the same sort of
problems in the marriage as you are?  If not, why not?