Vickie wrote:
> On Jul 2, 10:53 am, "Bill in Co" <surly_curmudg...@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
>
> wrote:
>> Vickie wrote:
>>> On Jul 2, 5:13 am, Erin <im906...@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> wrote:
>>>> If a husband treats his mistress with civility,
>>>> respect and affection, finding no fault even with
>>>> obvious faults she has to others, while treating his wife
>>>> with impatience, irritability, rudeness and contempt,
>>>> ignoring her good character, hard work, and kindness,
>>>> what does it mean? My ************ says it means
>>>> that he has idealized the mistress, and that he has moved on
>>>> from his past love for his wife. Do counsellors think that
>>>> this can be reversed? Does anyone-- are there
>>>> statistics?
>>
>>>> I tend to think that's true. And yet, some people
>>>> think the marriage should continue, while others
>>>> think it's over.
>>
>>>> It seems that everyone has their own interest at
>>>> heart in this.
>>
>>> I think it means he is living in a fantasy. One with less
>>> responsibility and based in no real substance.
>>> How nice it would be to keep all the problems of the real world in
>>> this one corner, that you only decide to visit when *you* want to, and
>>> stay in the dream world for the rest of the time.
>>
>> I like that idea. Where is the sign up list?
>> (Or maybe I signed it already, can't recall now...)
>
> Sorry, no unselfish people allowed.
>
> Vickie
Well damn!


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