On Jul 2, 10:53=A0am, "Bill in Co" <surly_curmudg...@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
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wrote:
> Vickie wrote:
> > On Jul 2, 5:13 am, Erin <im906...@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> wrote:
> >> If a husband treats his mistress with civility,
> >> respect and affection, finding no fault even with
> >> obvious faults she has to others, while treating his wife
> >> with impatience, irritability, rudeness and contempt,
> >> ignoring her good character, hard work, and kindness,
> >> what does it mean? My ************ says it means
> >> that he has idealized the mistress, and that he has moved on
> >> from his past love for his wife. Do counsellors think that
> >> this can be reversed? Does anyone-- are there
> >> statistics?
>
> >> I tend to think that's true. And yet, some people
> >> think the marriage should continue, while others
> >> think it's over.
>
> >> It seems that everyone has their own interest at
> >> heart in this.
>
> > I think it means he is living in a fantasy. =A0One with less
> > responsibility and based in no real substance.
> > How nice it would be to keep all the problems of the real world in
> > this one corner, that you only decide to visit when *you* want to, and
> > stay in the dream world for the rest of the time.
>
> I like that idea. =A0 =A0Where is the sign up list?
> (Or maybe I signed it already, can't recall now...)- Hide quoted text -
Sorry, no unselfish people allowed.
Vickie
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