Vickie wrote:
> On Jul 2, 5:13 am, Erin <im906...@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> wrote:
>> If a husband treats his mistress with civility,
>> respect and affection, finding no fault even with
>> obvious faults she has to others, while treating his wife
>> with impatience, irritability, rudeness and contempt,
>> ignoring her good character, hard work, and kindness,
>> what does it mean? My ************ says it means
>> that he has idealized the mistress, and that he has moved on
>> from his past love for his wife. Do counsellors think that
>> this can be reversed? Does anyone-- are there
>> statistics?
>>
>> I tend to think that's true. And yet, some people
>> think the marriage should continue, while others
>> think it's over.
>>
>> It seems that everyone has their own interest at
>> heart in this.
>>
>
> I think it means he is living in a fantasy. One with less
> responsibility and based in no real substance.
> How nice it would be to keep all the problems of the real world in
> this one corner, that you only decide to visit when *you* want to, and
> stay in the dream world for the rest of the time.
I like that idea. Where is the sign up list?
(Or maybe I signed it already, can't recall now...)
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