Erin <im906768@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> writes:
> If a husband treats his mistress with civility,
> respect and affection, finding no fault even with
> obvious faults she has to others, while treating his wife
> with impatience, irritability, rudeness and contempt,
> ignoring her good character, hard work, and kindness,
> what does it mean? My ************ says it means
> that he has idealized the mistress, and that he has moved on
> from his past love for his wife. Do counsellors think that
> this can be reversed? Does anyone-- are there
> statistics?
People can fall in love. People can fall out of love. Nothing is
unchangable.
Though frankly, if your husband has fallen out of love with you, it
doesn't seem particlarly likely that he'd fall back in love with you
while he's pursuing a relation****p with someone else.
(It may not be likely in any case though.)
> I tend to think that's true. And yet, some people
> think the marriage should continue, while others
> think it's over.
>
> It seems that everyone has their own interest at
> heart in this.
Certainly you, your husband, and his friend all have your own
(different) interests at heart. Which isn't especially surprising.
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