Doug Freyburger wrote:
> Erin <im906...@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> wrote:
> >
> > If a husband treats his mistress with civility,
> > respect and affection, finding no fault even with
> > obvious faults she has to others, while treating his wife
> > with impatience, irritability, rudeness and contempt,
> > ignoring her good character, hard work, and kindness,
> > what does it mean? =EF=BF=BDMy ************ says it means
> > that he has idealized the mistress, and that he has moved on
> > from his past love for his wife. =EF=BF=BDDo counsellors think that
> > this can be reversed? Does anyone-- are there
> > statistics?
>
> Ah, back on the other end of the swing. Sigh.
> Goodbye whatever that compromise was when the
> husband did not actually live up to the actions part
> just the words part.
No good-bye to the compromise-- it stand and i stand
by my word; infact the compromise is an effort on both
our parts to resolve the problems in the marriage, if they
are infact problems of the marriage; but i do wonder why
he sounded so nice on the phone to her-- polite and
everything, and he does not seem the same way with me--
that's all-- i wonder-- maybe he doesn't like me anymore
and just can't bring himself to say so, but he does say
he loves me.
Erin
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