Erin <im906...@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> wrote:
>
> If a husband treats his mistress with civility,
> respect and affection, finding no fault even with
> obvious faults she has to others, while treating his wife
> with impatience, irritability, rudeness and contempt,
> ignoring her good character, hard work, and kindness,
> what does it mean? =A0My ************ says it means
> that he has idealized the mistress, and that he has moved on
> from his past love for his wife. =A0Do counsellors think that
> this can be reversed? Does anyone-- are there
> statistics?
Ah, back on the other end of the swing. Sigh.
Goodbye whatever that compromise was when the
husband did not actually live up to the actions part
just the words part.
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