If a husband treats his mistress with civility,
respect and affection, finding no fault even with
obvious faults she has to others, while treating his wife
with impatience, irritability, rudeness and contempt,
ignoring her good character, hard work, and kindness,
what does it mean? My ************ says it means
that he has idealized the mistress, and that he has moved on
from his past love for his wife. Do counsellors think that
this can be reversed? Does anyone-- are there
statistics?
I tend to think that's true. And yet, some people
think the marriage should continue, while others
think it's over.
It seems that everyone has their own interest at
heart in this.
Erin


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