Re: Ice Cream

Stephanie wrote:
> The problem I have with the assumption that this is a
> siutation/problem with "people" instead of you and your husband is
> that it sets up an expectation in your head that it just IS, and
> there is nothing you can do about it. If you *choose* not to address
> issues with your husband, that is you perogative. But I suspect that
> your tendency to think of these issues as general and common marital
> issues, I think leads you to a mental state that is not true.

I see your point, but I also see what she's doing a little differently....

I think if she reminds herself that her DH really isn't that different
from 
anyone else, she keeps from falling into a poor me attitude.  And the fact

of the matter is that sometimes you can't change what your spouse is like,

and you just have to learn to accept it.

Xorra