Re: Venting time - it is my week for depression.

Doug Laidlaw wrote:
> As objectively as I can be, marriage can be a mystery.  There are
> things about my wife that I think don't meet my needs; I have sensed
> in the company of other women that they would be far more suitable
in
> those regards.  I could say that I waited too long, until the field
> was limited.
>
> But despite all that, there is a solid bond between us.  I find the
> relation****p very satisfying and very dissatisfying at the same
time.
>
> As I said, a mystery.
>
> Doug L.

I think the problem may be that we think monogamy is the way to go.

I'm not saying that anyone should consider sleeping around, just that
perhaps we need as many friends/mentors/people we can help/whatever
as we can get in life.

Sometimes those who need the most get the least. I think there may be
a pattern to that. i.e. the more love we are able to give the more
love
we have in our lives.

- Michaela