Caitriona Mac Fhiodhbhuidhe wrote:
> On Jun 26, 2:00 pm, saulgoode <pudbo...@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> wrote:
> <snipped of some interesting suggestions to keep in mind... if ever
> needed>
>>
>> ...
>>
>> Frankly, I've been through what I call "giddy-dating" so many times
>> that the luster's gone off it. I like it, sure, but I keep my
>> expectations realistic.
>>
>> Realistically, I'll never hear from this woman again. Realistically,
>> if I do, then she'll go out with me a few times, then jog back over to
>> her comfy-ol boyfriend -- breakups have a way of really fanning that
>> little spark you miss. This is the scenario four-out-of-five times,
>> I'd say.
>>
>> Sure, maybe this'll be the big ticket for me. But probably not. Just
>> another random number I'll delete in a few weeks, no lottery this
>> time. Nothing more than a neat little story, I think I thought I
>> thunk.
>
>
> :-) Sounds like you're kinda where I am, Saul. I had a helluva time
> last night, trying to convince my best girlfriend that I'm not looking
> for anything serious right now. She kept saying, "You can't convince
> me of that!"
>
> But then I looked at the guy she's seeing, the one she'd just asked if
> he knew anyone "for me." Told him, "Look, I'm just looking for
> someone to go out and have fun with. You know? If and when anything
> else happens, God will make it happen. For now, I just want to date."
>
> Thankfully, *HE* understood what I meant.
>
>
>>
>> But, God has a way of ****ing with me. I told Pop yesterday, "You
>> know, God has a way of ****ing with me. He'll run me off the road,
>> flip me upside-down in the ditch in the middle of a global nowhere,
>> for no other reason than I'm supposed to be there. When I finally come
>> to and look around, it's exactly where I wanted to be, actually, and
>> God's laughing His Ass off because now I have to walk."
>>
>> We'll see.
>
>
> I like the way you put that. :-)
>
>
>>
>> In your case, dearest, just hang in there. Nobody's in it for the
>> dadgum sparks.
>>
>
>
> Sparks can be fun. But it's that long-lasting, slow burn that keeps
> you warm at night. Wouldn't it be nice to have something akin to a
> mesquite fire in the fireplace?
>
> Kitten
And sustain it for years to come... Yes, that would be nice. (I
guess
one can dream the impossible dream :-). (forgot who wrote that)


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