On Jun 26, 1:12=A0pm, "YooperBoyka" <cjd...@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> wrote:
> saulgoode wrote:
> > On Jun 26, 1:03 pm, Vickie <lilliputianbizz...@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> wrote:
> >> On Jun 26, 10:38 am, "YooperBoyka" <cjd...@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> wrote:
>
> >>> Vickie wrote:
> >>>> On Jun 26, 8:00 am, "YooperBoyka" <cjd...@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> wrote:
> >>>>> saulgoode wrote:
>
> >>>>>> She was a gymnast in her younger days. You could tell.
>
> >>>>> Sweet.
>
> >>>> Bittersweet, from my window seat.
>
> >>> Really?
> >>> How so?
>
> >> I suppose I am in a mood.
>
> >> I remember that feeling he is moving towards, that first spark, those
> >> wonderful, lustful first dates, and sometimes as much as I try to
> >> convince myself that what I have, this deep intimacy with my husband,
> >> it can seem so minor compared to first love feelings.
>
> >> I try hard to bring those feelings to light now and again. Spice it
> >> up, you know? But it gets difficult. You get into these roommate
> >> patterns and then the fog clears and you go, wtf? I love this man, he
> >> is my husband, I was crazy for him, where did my insanity go?
>
> >> And here is Saul, looking for the insanity, which will eventually
> >> turn to a slow sizzle, to a simmer, then life sets in. Bittersweet.
>
> >> (Sorry Saul, I took you through the process quite quickly and of
> >> course you may stay in the craziness for a long, long time.)
>
> >> I don't know, YooperB, I am usually a romantic for this type of
> >> thing. I do get lucky to be one of those that can get inspired by
> >> someone else's words and actions. And usually would be over-the-moon
> >> excited for him. Like I said, I am in a mood.
>
> >> Maybe this is the kick in the pants I need to start working at
> >> getting some spice back, yes?
>
> >> Yes, that is how I will look at it. :-)
>
> >> Hmmm, what to do, what to do....
>
> >> Vickie
>
> > ...
>
> > Sleep on the couch, both of you. Fall asleep there watching a movie,
> > drink a little beer (Stella?).
>
> > Sleep in his boxers & tee ****rt, then give them to him to wear to work
> > the next day.
>
> THAT I useta *love*!
> ...um,...occasionally I mean,...sorta...nevermind.
lol
Funny thing, I certainly know DH has a scent, pretty damn good one.
But never think *I* do. Maybe some kind of coconut lotion smell but
not sure he would want to be smelling that all day. lol
>
> Y'know, I'm glad you jumped in first on that one.
> I was actually bein' kinda shallow and superficial with
> the "sweet" comment, and then I thought that maybe Vickie
> useta be a gymnast too and then...
> I realizes I been a little flip and...
> I was holding on to her post thunkin' and...
> Yours popped up.
>
> Vickie?
> Yeah,...what he said.
> Sparks and fireworks is kinda overrated.
> You can keep some in there and it's cool and all
> but genuine respect can go a long way.
>
> ...this from a guy whose marriage B'sploded.
> ;^)- Hide quoted text -
It may be a bit selfish but it does help to be reminded of what I *do*
have.
*That* I appreciate. thx
Vickie
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