On Jun 26, 10:38=A0am, "YooperBoyka" <cjd...@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> wrote:
> Vickie wrote:
> > On Jun 26, 8:00 am, "YooperBoyka" <cjd...@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> wrote:
> >> saulgoode wrote:
>
> >>> She was a gymnast in her younger days. You could tell.
>
> >> Sweet.
>
> > Bittersweet, from my window seat.
>
> Really?
> How so?
I suppose I am in a mood.
I remember that feeling he is moving towards, that first spark, those
wonderful, lustful first dates, and sometimes as much as I try to
convince myself that what I have, this deep intimacy with my husband,
it can seem so minor compared to first love feelings.
I try hard to bring those feelings to light now and again. Spice it
up, you know? But it gets difficult. You get into these roommate
patterns and then the fog clears and you go, wtf? I love this man, he
is my husband, I was crazy for him, where did my insanity go?
And here is Saul, looking for the insanity, which will eventually turn
to a slow sizzle, to a simmer, then life sets in. Bittersweet.
(Sorry Saul, I took you through the process quite quickly and of
course you may stay in the craziness for a long, long time.)
I don't know, YooperB, I am usually a romantic for this type of
thing. I do get lucky to be one of those that can get inspired by
someone else's words and actions. And usually would be over-the-moon
excited for him. Like I said, I am in a mood.
Maybe this is the kick in the pants I need to start working at getting
some spice back, yes?
Yes, that is how I will look at it. :-)
Hmmm, what to do, what to do....
Vickie


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