Re: lonely

Doug Freyburger wrote:
> mom0f4boys <momsh...@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> wrote:
>>
>> I'm tired and lonely, and so sick of hating my husband, Alternately
>> hating and 'trying'.
>
> So what have you tried, as in professional help?
>
>> sorry sorry sorry and I'm SICK of feeling sorry and mad!!!!!!
>
> You come in about twice a year and complain.  What's the
> action in between?  Or do you just prefer the group be a
> sounding board?

What difference does that make?

> I get the feminine deal of complaining
> every so often to let off steam, but your words include "hate".
> That isn't letting off steam.  None of your complaints have
> been about stuff he's done or stuff you've done.  You feelings
> are im****tant and expressing them is supposed to give you
> release,

It's a *process*, Doug.   And probably a long one.    :-)

> but using the word "hate" doesn't seem like it will
> lead that direction and without discussing actions there
> doesn't seem to be much to work with.
>
> So I'm somewhere between - "Cut it out with the words that
> hurt" and "Okay did that blow off enough steam that you're
> good for another six months?  Folks read your message so
> the sounding board thing worked."

"Worked"?    (We're not here necessarily to just FIX things).