Re: July 29, crap crap crap

On Jun 6, 7:42=A0am, vjr...@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
 (Vicki Robinson) wrote:
> In a previous article, Caitriona Mac Fhiodhbhuidhe
<st_brigids_gate_f...@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> said:
>
> >1st wedding: =A0April 18, 1987
> >1st divorce: =A0Dec 29, 1996
> >2nd wedding: =A0Midnight, January 2000
> >2nd divorce: =A0March 26, 2008
>
> >Somebody tell me it stops some day. =A0Please.
>
> Depends on what you mean by "it." =A0My second marriage is 11 years old
(O=
K, 10
> years and 51 weeks old!) and is rock solid and happy. =A0(Not perfect,
but=
 very
> happy.) =A0It certainly can happen.
>


I'm caught somewhere between telling myself to "just get over it" and
wi****ng I'd been able to figure out a way to make things work better.
I know that there's nothing I could have done to influence either
Chewy or my 1st husband to make different choices than they made; but
I go into occasional modes of second-guessing my own choices.

But when you tell someone, "We need to get help," and they say, "No,"
what else can you do but let go?

Kitten