Re: July 29, crap crap crap

On Jun 5, 2:59=A0pm, saulgoode <pudbo...@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
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> On Jun 5, 2:31=A0pm, Barb D. <barbe...@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
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> > On Thu, 5 Jun 2008 09:37:05 -0700 (PDT), saulgoode
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> > <pudbo...@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
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> > >All these years -- three years, I guess -- I blocked it out.
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> > >July 29, 2005, that's when it happened, and I blocked it out. I don't
> > >want to live that day over and over, gaddamint.
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> > >But I'm digging out the divorce decree, now, so I can buy another
> > >house. I'm moving up to a better house in a better neighborhood,
> > >actually putting "neighbor" into it, because now I just live in a
> > >"hood."
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> > >And all this time I intentionally blocked out that July 29th date.
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> > >this time, and I'm looking through the divorce decree, trying not to
> > >cry, looking for the quit-deed, the c/s do***entation, and there it
is
> > >in the ex-wife's looping girly-letters: July 29th, her neatly drawn
> > >initials next to my illegible scribbles at the bottom.
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> > >Crap crap crap.
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> > >Ah well. Now I get two days a year -- anniversary, and divorce.
> > >Marriage and death. I get to celebrate both. How wonderful.
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> > >And now I'm bout to cry at work for no gaddamned reason.
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> > >Great house, though, beautiful, walking distance to the golf course,
> > >walking distance to the lake, two pools, across the street from the
> > >park (park is my front yard), top-notch elem. school... Assuming I
get
> > >the house, that is.
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> > >I hate being a ****ing drama queen! Just some things cut deep and
> > >never heal, I suppose.
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> > Interesting -- my divorce hearing was on July 25, although the decree
> > wasn't signed until July 31.
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> > Sounds like a few of us here have July "divorce-eries" :-(
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> > Barb
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> It's 6mos from Christmas. Usually we wait till after New Year's before
> we bust up our families, then it takes 6mos to get all those ducks
> lined up and plucked.


Heh.  Chewy left 2 days after my bday and 12 days before Christmas.

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