On Jan 2, 3:10 pm, "Bill in Co" <surly_curmudg...@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
>
wrote:
> Erin wrote:
> > Michaela wrote:
> >> Bill in Co wrote:
> >>> Michaela wrote:
>
> >>>> But ideally, I'd say that to really love is to see only perfection.
>
> >>>> - Michaela
>
> >>> Tell that to Bhutto's family, and the rest of the world, and see how
> >>> far it gets you. (Or Biko's family, for that matter).
>
> >> If we hadn't discussed my take on this before I'd take the time to
> >> give you my pov on this, but we have and so I shan't.
>
> >> - Michaela
>
> > RATS! It is the Year of the Rat in the Chinese Calendar.
> > He's back from his hietus with the hyena. I was hoping
> > he and she would have gone the Romeo and Juliette way
> > so i'd never have to see his ugly face again; but unfortunately
> > he is back.
>
> > Now, my problem is how to avoid him. I really never want
> > to see him again. He literally makes me sick. Any suggestions?
> > Gl*****, mask, duck if i hear him. I can't leave town because
> > my parents need me here and i am taking care of our dog, and
> > we have a house, and it'separation not divorce for practical
> > reasons.
>
> > Erin
>
> I don't know what to suggest. I can't really imagine continuing to
live
> like that! You guys at least need separate abodes, don't ya? One of
ya
> ought to move out.
I agree with Bill. Get separate abodes asap. We were going to
separate for two weeks, but by Day 5 I was so crazy I just told him to
leave right then. I told him he HAD to leave right then. He did.
That was in 2000. I saw him about three times after that, during the
months before the divorce was final, and have never laid eyes on him
since. It makes it easier to take tiny steps to sanity.


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