Re: A woman who dated a married man

On Jan 4, 8:27=A0am, "deja.blues" <deja.bl...@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> wrote:
> "krzgirl" <krzg...@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> wrote in message
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news:26330683-6f7f-4717-88ab-3774b19cb948@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
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> > I'm really sorry you have to deal with MRSA. truly I am - no one
should
> > have
> > to deal with that. That's a chance we all take.
> > The herpes and chlamydia, not so much.
> >>If you are having ***, you are taking that chance also.
>
> Considering that I've been with the same person for 25 years , have been
> married for 20.5 of those years, and live a lifestyle that is not
conduciv=
e
> to secrecy, that possibility is vani****ngly small!
>
> > Anyway, I think your unrepentant stance has gone over like a lead
balloo=
n
> > ,
> > er zeppelin, here, because this is a *marriage* sup****t newsgroup.
> >>Unrepentant, hon, you are just plain wrong. I know I was wrong and I
> >>was responsible and I have stopped the affair, prayed, made ammends
> >>and still work in outreach trying to help others NOT make the bad
> >>decisions I did, so, I would not agree that I am "unrepetant." I have
> >>stated several times in this thread I am here to explain my actions
> >>NOT JUSTIFY them. They are unjustifyable.
>
> Part of repentance is the promise to not repeat the behavior - "go forth
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nd
> sin no more".

Yes.  Can anyone even want to learn something from her mistake when
she is still making one?
This notion of telling her tale to help others is crap, for me at
least.  Because she is still helping to break up a marriage, still
hoping she "wins" in the end.

Vickie