Re: A woman who dated a married man

krzgirl wrote:
>> I'm really sorry you have to deal with MRSA. truly I am - no one
>> should have to deal with that. That's a chance we all take.
>> The herpes and chlamydia, not so much.
>
> If you are having ***, you are taking that chance also.
>>
>> Anyway, I think your unrepentant stance has gone over like a lead
>> balloon , er zeppelin, here, because this is a *marriage* sup****t
>> newsgroup.
>
> Unrepentant, hon, you are just plain wrong. I know I was wrong and I
> was responsible and I have stopped the affair

Have you? I think you've stopped the physical affair for the time being
but 
you're still his confidante and very loving friend aren't you? You can't
go 
back to being just good friends while you both still have a romantic 
attachment to each other.  You're deluding yourself if you think an 
emotional affair is any less damaging to his marriage and to his chances
of 
finding happiness with his wife in the future.

Stop all contact with him if you are truly serious about ending your
affair 
and definitely don't plan to meet him for that rendezvous. (I hope it
isn't 
as trite as a Valentine's Day meeting!)