Re: A woman who dated a married man

deja.blues wrote:
> "krzgirl" <krzgirl@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> wrote in message
>
news:8c7fd454-cda7-46b4-ab3f-5545f6f6dbb4@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
>> Ya'll have your laughs. I go to work every day in public health and I
>> help "real" people. The day will come when all of you are affected
>> either directly or indirectly by in infectious disease, though I
>> wouldn't wish it on any of you.
>
> I'm really sorry you have to deal with MRSA. truly I am - no one should
have
> to deal with that. That's a chance we all take.
> The herpes and chlamydia, not so much.
>
> Anyway, I think your unrepentant stance has gone over like a lead
balloon
,
> er zeppelin, here, because this is a *marriage* sup****t newsgroup.
> You, as a survivor of abuse, should know better than to blame the victim
> (your lovers wife in this case) for the behavior of others. Saying  "If
> married women would be good wives, good partners, good lovers, then
their
> husbands wouldn't come looking for someone. It is NOT solely the fault
> of the other person, the wives are the ones that leave them unfulfilled
and
> vulnerable" takes the responsibility away from your lover, when in
reality
> he's the one who chose to act as he did, and you chose to go along with
it.
> That's like an abusive husband or parent saying "She MADE me hit her! It
was
> all her fault!"
>
> You're not the one that's married, but marriage counselors dealing with
> people who are truly trying to save their marriages say that the
marriage
> partners can't have "one foot out the door" if they want it to work. Cut
off
> all contact with this guy. If he shows up later, fine, deal with it
then,
at
> least you'll know that while you may have been an influence in ending
his
> marriage, you weren't the ultimate cause. Does that sound reasonable?

Can I answer for her?     Pretty pretty please????
OK, the answer is, No!