Re: World of Warcraft = a sucky marriage

Bill in Co wrote:
> Michaela wrote:
>> Michaela wrote:
>>> Emma Anne wrote:
>>>> Michaela wrote:
>>>>
>>>>> Vickie wrote:
>>>>>> Anyway back to the WOW.  I am not going to be a nag, but have
>>>>>> decided to say what needs to be said.  See how it plays out.
>>>>>>
>>>>>> Vickie
>>>>>
>>>>> What is it that decides whether you are nagging as opposed to
>>>>> being assertive?
>>>>>
>>>>
>>>> Whether you are a woman or not?
>>>
>>> LOL. Not quite...
>>>
>>> I am suggesting that it is about perception.
>>>
>>> Haven't you met someone who you knew most people liked, but you
had
>>> an instant dislike for that person? If so, what was it that set
you
>>> apart from those other people?
>>>
>>> Or perhaps you knew someone who you thought was absolutely
wonderful
>>> and so you introduced them to someone else thinking they too would
>>> like the first person. Only they didn't. What is it that the third
>>> person didn't like about the first person?
>>>
>>> - Michaela
>>
>> Perhaps I could rather ask, what decides whether or not we do or
>> don't like another?
>>
>> - Michaela
>
> The way they respond; their ideas and their morals; and what they
> have to say, and how well you can handle or not handle what they
have
> to say  (etc, etc, etc (said the King and I)..

Would you then agree that people reflect each other? I mean, keeping
what you said above in mind, go back to what I asked at first: what is
it that is [within us?] that decides whether or not  we accept or
reject
something or someone? And why do some reject while others accept?

What is it that gives you impression A and me impression B about the
same thing/person? And what about other people? Perhaps they have
an entirely different idea [impression C, D, F etc.] about this same
person/thing?

What is the truth of that thing?

- Michaela


>
> "Elementary, my dear Watson".    :-)