Re: A woman who dated a married man

krzgirl wrote:
> Ya'll have your laughs. I go to work every day in public health and I
> help "real" people. The day will come when all of you are affected
> either directly or indirectly by in infectious disease, though I
> wouldn't wish it on any of you. Even after your intolerant treatment
> of me. "Disease ridden whores" don't know what they have, seek
> agressive treatment, and make sure everyone they have come in contact
> with has been informed, even after the fact. I am a responsible,
> informed, health professional that made some bad decisions with my
> personal life, not denying that or the fact that I fell in love with
> the wrong person. But that which doesn't kill us makes us stronger,
> and I have emerged a very strong person. I realize how uninformed you
> all are. That and uncompassionate. In spite of your treatment of me, I
> would do anything I could to help you and to educate you and direct
> you to proper counseling to help you deal with it when one of these
> issues crops into your life.
>
> I would rather be loving and making love in the real world than
> playing games with imaginary people, one is a heckuva lot lonelier
> than the other. Life is short, I choose to live and love. My self
> esteem is fine and you haven't made me feel one bit worse about
> myself, but you have made me feel pretty darned bad about the way most
> of you on the board view life
>
> I came here as an "other person" you all could have learned from my
> mistakes as I have. But, my honestly about what any of you could face
> scared the begeebees out of you. Your loss. When your spouses have
> affairs, you may think "hmm, maybe I could have learned something from
> her....."
>
> I'll be out living and loving in the real world while ya'll stay safe
> and warm and nuture your little secrets and prejiduses in here.
>
> Happy New Year to the emotionally crippled ignorant folks on this
> board. I would love to take a survey about how many of you are
> nuturing "secrets" about the kinda stuff I had the courage to come
> clean about in here. And, yes, I do mean "clean."
>
>
> > I was picturing that orangey antiseptic cling wrap stuff that surgeons
use
> > during surgeries.- Hide quoted text -
> >
> > - Show quoted text -


Look "woman who dated a married man",  (dated?) anyway, look,
we all have our limitations, talents and abilities.  Some people like
to
stay away from exciting love affairs, for a number of reasons.  It's
your choice to do so, but you are asking for help so, that's why
you're
getting different replies from different perspectives.  If you wer
happy
with your life choices, you would not be here.

Erin