Re: A woman who dated a married man

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 krzgirl <krzgirl@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
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> > What happens when that phase p*****? and it always does! Why do you
> > think he will not go online again?
> 
> Given his actions since his wife found out and his strict adherence to
> not give into temptation and attempt to woo me. Given his tears, his
> sincerety, His apologies, his actions as a whole, yes, I believe he
> will not go online again searching for someone to be with. I think he
> is much less likely to than the average married or committed man. I
> think he has hurt people and he has learned and he will avoid making
> those same mistakes again. I have the utmost faith in him.
> 

M. Scott Peck in "The Road Less Travelled" describes the initial stages 
of love as being a kind of tem****ary insanity. You literally are unable 
to see reality because you are so blinded by the hormones and chemicals.

i believe that's where you and he are. You are in the throes of 
infatuation and what you don't see or won't or can't admit is that the 
fact that he is being dishonest everyday with his wife is proof that he 
has not learned.

The fact that you and he have a secret rendezvous is proof that he is 
still unfaithful.

Unless he is lying to you.

He is either cheating on his wife or lying to you. There is really not a 
third way that I see.

Sorry,

T

> Some people repeat their mistakes, others learn from them. I learned
> from mine and I believe he learned from his.