Re: A woman who dated a married man

krzgirl <krzgirl@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> writes:

> > This is what you don't seem to understand:  It's quite possible that
> > he *does* love her and is telling her so, and that it is YOU he is
> > lying to.    In many of these situations, that's exactly what's going
> > on.  Yes, he appears to be sincere when he tells you that it's you he
> > loves and not her.  He also appears to be sincere to his wife when he
> > tells HER that it's over between the two of you and that he loves her.
> >
> > He always appears to be sincere because he is a *liar*, and he's good
> > at it.  Good grief, it amazes me how many cheaters and affair partners
> > just do not understand this!
> > --
> > Lauri in WA
> 
> You are right, it is also quite possible that his state and mine will
> fall into the altantic ocean tonight due to an earthquake.

No, that's really not quite possible.
 
> We just
> have to go with what we believe in an educated guess and what our
> heart and gut tell us is going to happen. That is what I am doing. I
> am also NOT buying earthquake insurance.

It seems strange to put trusting a liar in the same category as
trusting that the eastern seaboard of the U.S. is not about to break
loose and sink.

Does the fact that you are making such similes give you any pause at
all?