Re: A woman who dated a married man

"krzgirl" <krzgirl@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> wrote in message 
news:81a9a462-753a-453b-b2bc-f18d5986c148@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> In my situation, he was very lonely, felt neglected, not listened to,
> not treated like a parnter, and unfulfilled ***ually. Yes, I was
> vulnerable, too, but he sought me out and we did, indeed fall in love.
> When he was "caught" he told his wife that I gave him three things she
> didn't 1) I listened to him, 2) I talked to him, and 3) I made  him
> feel desireable.
>
> Not all of us who had an affair are homewreckers.


By definition, people who cheat are homewreckers. People who fix or leave 
their failed marriage first are also homewreckers of a sort. I think the 
latter more justified, myself.


> We were overcome
> with guilt and I released him, then his wife found out. If married
> women would be good wives, good partners, good lovers, then their
> husbands wouldn't come looking for someone. It is NOT solely the fault
> of the other person, the wives are the ones that leave them
> unfulfilled and vulnerable.



It is not really the "fault" of the other person at all. But the other 
person should beware. Even if he does leave her for you, then you have 
yoursefl... a cheater. Good catch!