Re: A woman who dated a married man

On Fri, 28 Dec 2007 10:49:25 -0800 (PST), Erin wrote:

> Well, if he is unhappy with his wife, he should give her a divorce--
> that's the decent thing to do, imho.  Secondly, i don't know how long
> his marriage has been (i have been married 30 yrs.) and i can assure
> you that in the first blush of the honeymoon and into the first decade
> *** can be pretty hot, but it naturally declines for a number of
> reasons
> NO MATTER WHO OR HOW ATTRACTIVE THE PERSON IS.
> Third, infidelity destroys marriages.  I don't think that it is your
> liaison
> that is wrong, and your remorse; to the contrary I think that what is
> wrong is that you don't continue it, especialy since you love each
> other.  That being the case, maybe you can stimulate his balls to
> do the right thing and compensate the victim (his wife and or
> children)
> by granting a divorce and giving her the same op****tunity for
> a new life and happiness that he has given you and himself.

The last person that should give marriage advice is one that recently
helped her's to fail.
-- 
SD:)
"Intellectuals solve problems; geniuses prevent them.(A.E.)"
   My disclaimer: I can say, but can't make you see...(S.D.)