Re: A woman who dated a married man

krzgirl wrote:
> In my situation, he was very lonely, felt neglected, not listened to,
> not treated like a parnter, and unfulfilled ***ually. Yes, I was
> vulnerable, too, but he sought me out and we did, indeed fall in love.
> When he was "caught" he told his wife that I gave him three things she
> didn't 1) I listened to him, 2) I talked to him, and 3) I made  him
> feel desireable.
>
> Not all of us who had an affair are homewreckers. We were overcome
> with guilt and I released him, then his wife found out. If married
> women would be good wives, good partners, good lovers, then their
> husbands wouldn't come looking for someone. It is NOT solely the fault
> of the other person, the wives are the ones that leave them
> unfulfilled and vulnerable.

Did you ask him if perhaps he abused his wife?  If perhaps she was
lonely,
neglected, unfulfilled?  Maybe even her life threatened?  Or would all
that be irrelevant to your romantic fog?  As they say in the courts

Hear Both Sides.

Good luck to both of you - may you marry and reap what
might eventually come to be the same treatment for each
other in the future.

Erin