A woman who dated a married man

In my situation, he was very lonely, felt neglected, not listened to,
not treated like a parnter, and unfulfilled ***ually. Yes, I was
vulnerable, too, but he sought me out and we did, indeed fall in love.
When he was "caught" he told his wife that I gave him three things she
didn't 1) I listened to him, 2) I talked to him, and 3) I made  him
feel desireable.

Not all of us who had an affair are homewreckers. We were overcome
with guilt and I released him, then his wife found out. If married
women would be good wives, good partners, good lovers, then their
husbands wouldn't come looking for someone. It is NOT solely the fault
of the other person, the wives are the ones that leave them
unfulfilled and vulnerable.