Erin wrote:
> S.D. wrote:
> > On Thu, 27 Dec 2007 11:33:09 -0800 (PST), Vickie wrote:
> >
> > > lso I am not sure how long someone stays in a one of the stages. I
> > > assume there isn't really a time frame for any of them.
> >
> > There are stages. As to time, think of it this way. Once separted
from
> > a spouse now facing the divorce process, it takes 2-4yrs from that
point
> > for each person to properly travel though to where baggage isn't won't
> > affect the next relation****p.
> > --
> > SD:)
> > "Intellectuals solve problems; geniuses prevent them.(A.E.)"
> > My disclaimer: I ca say, but can't make you see...(S.D.)
>
> S.D.:) you really get on my nerves; you sound just like my DH -
> analogies with baggages, and stopwatches, and predictions;
> you really think this is a science? Then you should have no
> objections to what happens to someone who doesn't take
> their meds for depression.
>
> Erin
I'm sorry I was rude S.D.:)
I have had a lot of help from my mother and my neighbours and
my friends on this, as well as a wise family friend:
Time to consider Ockam's Razor: if someone keeps inflicting pain
on you when you do not deserve it for a prolonged time, with no
remorse,
if it means anything, it certainly means this-- they don't love you.
This is especially the case if at the same time they are able to be
respectful, trusting, and loving towards another woman/and or
friends, whom they have chosen as "their kind".
Now, as my wise ******** said, do you want to continue to
receive pain from this person?
Hey, I am getting somewhere. I bet AllYou!
and Vickie would be proud of me. :-)
Erin
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