Erin wrote:
> Vickie wrote:
> > On Dec 26, 2:37=EF=BF=BDpm, Erin <squig...@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> wrote:
> > > Here is my New Year's Wish!
> > >
> > > I wish i wish i wish, and i hope with all my heart
> > >
> > > that I NEVER SEE MY HUSBAND AGAIN,
> > >
> > > whatever it takes.
> > >
> > > Please *********** stay where you are and never
> > > come back. =EF=BF=BDThat would make me so happy and
> > > we would both be free.
> > >
> > > Erin
> >
> > I am not a p-doc or therapist, but it sounds as though you have moved
> > from the mourning faze into the anger faze.
> > I wish I could tell you if you are moving forward or backward in
> > this. Hopefully forward.
> >
> > Vickie
>
>
> He just left. I wish it were not painful for me. But I do feel
> that if i don't see him, i will recover. I just can't believe
> he's done this to me. It's so unlike him, and he could have
> asked me to go with him-- i am his wife. Don't husbands
> spend the holidays travelling with their wife and their family?
> It's so weird and painful at the same time. At least if his
> dr. had said something to me -- like, he's got cancer, you're
> going to die soon, he has to split from you, but nothing,
> nothing from nobody. And from him, gifts and presents and
> promises and hopes to reunite and that he loves me and
> always will.
>
> So, i have a communication problem coming from THEM,
> not from me. I am willing to accept an unconditional,
> firm statement. They are the ones who are either silent,
> vacillating or more confused than I am. At least,
> I can say, yes i love hiim and I want him to be my
> husband as he was before this med-crackdown or
> head injury he had, ba****ng his brains out on the
> floor over and over again. MRI? No way. But his
> uncle who is a nurse said he should have one.
>
> Erin
And here is something that the dr. should have
considered worthy of notice: he not only had social
problems, after the med withdrawal and head banging,
he had
- memory lapses
- sleep cycle disturbances
- coma-like fugues
- irritability
- weight loss
- mania
- confusion
- anxiety
- suicide attempts (hanging)
I mean, it wasn't *just* an attraction that
was the change in his character.
This is why I insisted that he see a psychiatrist.
Instead he went to a therapist for relation****p
conflicts, who did him no good at all, except from
a palliative point of view.
Erin
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