-Calliope- wrote:
> On Sat 29 Oct 2005 10:18:25a, Tai wrote:
>
> > I genuinely find
> > it hard to understand why anyone feels resentful that their spouse
> > wants to be close to them ***ually. It would be like feeling angy
> > because they wanted a hug. It *is* a hug, as far as I'm concerned.
> >
>
> I *definitely* can see why someone could be resentful about their
partner
> trying to be '***ually close'.
>
> If you are feeling like a convenient recepticle for your partner to get
> their rocks off, while they show no love, respect nor kindness during
the
> other interactions you have with them throughout the day, for instance.
>
> Or when they only care about their satisfaction, and then simply roll
over
> with out caring whether you feel any kind of satisfaction as well. If
> every ***ual encounter between the couple becomes all about their own
> needs with little regard to their partner is another good reason why
> someone might feel resentful towards their partner.
>
> I imagine that if I routinely pulled my partner close to me, and
> encouraged him to do things to my body that allowed me to have orgasms
and
> then rolled over and said "Night, Night" without ever caring whether he
> was satisfied as well, that he'd be resentful and not all that willing
to
> repeat the process next time 'round.
> --
> Cal~
>
> calliope 123 at gmail dot com
Bingo!
If he doesn't make it chrystal clear to me and the world that he likes
me a whole lot outside of the bedroom......well, I think you get my
drift.
I think this was Zorra's point, too.
Grace
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