On Aug 31, 8:41=A0am, Bev <bebelestrnge0...@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
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> Liliana wrote:
> > On Aug 30, 8:17 pm, Bev <bebelestrnge0...@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> wrote:
> > > Hello,
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> > > I am feeling lost. Mom was very sick for many years. She fought back
> > > from a near death experience just a year and a half ago. I was able
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> > > be with her then in the hospice we took her to. We were told she
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> > > suffer if we had kept her at my sister house. I spent a good 5-6
> > > months in Texas back then helping my sis care for mom. She got well
> > > enough to go back home to my sis's house and I came back home. I
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> > > got to see mom again. She had heart disease, lung disease and
> > > diabetes. Apparently she had severe osteo****osis too. About 2 weeks
> > > ago sis took mom to the hospital with severe back pain, Turns out
she
> > > has several "old" compression fractures due to how brittle her bones
> > > in her spine were. Morphine was not even ending the pain for longer
> > > than a couple hours. Once the medicare kicked her out of the
hospital
> > > she was moved to a rehabilitation center { nursing home} . The doc
> > > there prescribed a fentanyl patch of 25 mcg. and oral vicoden. This
> > > did not do much more than have her sleeping a lot she had some good
> > > moments. The pain still broke through and on the 27th she was
> > > administered a 75 mcg. patch of Fentanyl and by 1 a.m. that same
> > > morning she was rushed from the nursing home to the hospital her
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> > > pressure bottomed out. The patch was immediately removed. The doctor
> > > said in order to keep mom from heart failure they had to put her in
a
> > > level of renal failure. So she was being given intravenous fluids
and
> > > lasix. By 11:30 that morning The 28th mom was in terrible pain, the
> > > doctor asked her if she was sure she wanted a shot for pain that it
> > > could supress her respiratory system too much. At the same time they
> > > had catheritized her and only blood came from her bladder, she was
in
> > > renal failure. Mom said "I have had enough I can't do this anymore I
> > > want the shot". She fell asleep and slept several hours. My sis
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> > > me and said her lunch ws still sitting there , I asked her to wake
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> > > and ask her if she wanted it. She awoke long enough to decline in
her
> > > way "I don't want that s***. The nurse came in about 15 minutes
later
> > > and took vitals and that was when we all realized she was going to
> > > die. There was no bottom number for a blood pressure at about 4 p.m.
> > > by 8:08 p.m. mom was gone. I never got to talk to her on the phone
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> > > last week of her life, she told sis she didn't want any calls from
> > > anyone. The night before she died I asked my sis to ask her again if
> > > we could call her, she was never conscious enough to ask her. She's
> > > gone and I have this void inside my soul. Her wishes were to be
> > > cremated in Texas. I live in Pennsylvania, I'll never see her again.
> > > This is devastating.
>
> > > Bev
>
> > Dear Bev,
> > It sounds like your mom suffered quite a lot. =A0I am sorry for your
> > loss. =A0I looked after my father for many years, and then I watched
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> > die about 2 years ago. =A0He too went through so very much.... from
> > doctor to doctor, so many things wrong that nothing could help the
> > pain. =A0I am grateful that I was with him until the end, and was able
> > to do all that I could, just as you seemed to have done with your
> > mom. =A0Grief is hard, and will take its own time, and yes it is
> > devestating. =A0I wish you well, andhopethat you get as much sup****t
> > as you can from family and friends.- Hide quoted text -
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sorry for what happened.i'am george from kenya.
hi ,
Thanks alot ,I do co-ordinate the operations of the centre.
We offer volunteer service to the children home in Ruriu with our
sister children home at Ruai called HOPE some twenty miles away in
Nairobi Kenya..
Both institutions have average of fifty children each and with eight
volunteers had have left. We offer health care, caring for young how
have been transferred by police, education in the nearby primary
school. Due to land clashers we have only offered small children how
were not able to trace their parents .currently we have built small
rooms from iron sheets since we are paying rent the plot.
projects:
We shall be grateful if we get funds to settle our children since the
place we are is very much congested also we cannot modify some
buildings due to the lease.
We also fear diseases is likely to affect the place, small tiny
kitchen,
We have approach the local community and they are willing to sell to
us a piece of land just a few miles from where HOPE homes is located.
Our organization nonprofit making since we are dealing with children
without parents and the street families which have grown high in the
recent years.
Currently we do not have a website and we usual use the above email
address since the both directors are able to transact.
But we are currently looking for funds to have our own website.
HOPE also offer home stay with the local communities. In this aspect
volunteers are hosted in by the HOPE community members who have a long
experience of hosting several groups in a period of one month to six
months.this package goes for only $35 per day. Each volunteers is
given a room well furnished and he can keep his belongs. Wa****ng is
charges $3 and ironing $2.
1.The projects we crrently need is the assisatnce for prchase of land
and also funds to start the construction.
We have a dream of purchasing a land .
Power and water is also needed to the new project.
Purchase of beddings.
Good meals which we be able to grow on our own.
Also help the local church called miracle centre church at githuria.
2.You will require to infor me the period you will in kenya since we
can arrange from one week to nine weeks.
the payment is done to me direct since i have contract with the host
families.
3.I will at the air****t on your arrival and the $60 is for transfer.
4.You will have time to visit Masaai mara during the wildbeast
migrations currently.
5.Make sure you have gone for medical checkup since we are in
equtoral.
6 i would request if you may get a group which you may come with
them.while in kenya we shall all enjoy.
7.Note we also do have good safari packages in kenya and Tanizania.
Every time a volunteer needs assistance will always get from the host
family, incase of any medical you will be guided where seek.
8.visit in www.idearlist.org and type hope centre in kenya.
I hope this will help you in your budget.
I would love to get donations for our local church.
We are currently in NAIROBI KENYA.
THANK YOU
GEORGE MBURU NJOROGE
CELL:+254721610339
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