On Aug 20, 1:50=A0pm, "Daisy" <sweetdaisy67...@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
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> Thanks Jo...speaking of hugs you know you might think this sounds crazy
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> I ask for hugs from Buster all the time, and I receive them, I swear I
> do.....even to his dying day he was never embarrassed to give his momma
a
> hug or a kiss on the cheek even in public.
>
> --
> Daisy
> "Jo in Ok" <josi...@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
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> On Aug 17, 10:04 am, Genie <coatsge...@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
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> > On Aug 16, 9:02 am, "Daisy" <sweetdaisy67...@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
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> > > Aw, that hug helped so much too, back at ya my friend :)
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> > > --
> > > Daisy"NotYet1121" <NotYet1...@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
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> > > > On Aug 14, 5:00 am, "Daisy" <sweetdaisy67...@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> wrote:
> > > >> Just have to vent to my online family. Last night at work, I am a
> > > >> ****ft
> > > >> supervisor at a local restaurant we had a customer with two
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> > > >> girls
> > > >> come in around 8:30 pm. One of my waitresses had just cleaned and
> > > >> mopped
> > > >> an area in non smoking so we put up some chairs and a wet floor
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> > > >> Well she asked if we had a non smoking area because she was angry
> > > >> that
> > > >> there were two smokers in the smoking section. I directed her to
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> > > >> smoking and she says "it's closed off" I told her she was welcome
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> > > >> sit
> > > >> there anyway that we just cleaned a really messy area. Boy did
she
> > > >> ever
> > > >> get angry and said "nevermind" and walked out the door. I
followed
> > > >> her
> > > >> to her car and again explained the situation and all she said is
> > > >> "I'll
> > > >> take care of her." What she meant by that I thought was kind of a
> > > >> threat
> > > >> ya know?
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> > > >> The real thing is after I left my boss a note explaining what
> > > >> happened I
> > > >> know that when I go in today (thank goodness it's my day off) to
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> > > >> my
> > > >> paycheck she's not going to believe that's what happened and I'm
> > > >> gonna
> > > >> lose my cool. Geez........Well thanks for listening if you chose
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> > > >> read
> > > >> it at all, but I just had to tell someone!!! hahaha....so goes
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> > > >> right?
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> > > >> --
> > > >> Daisy
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> > > > Daisy my friend:
> > > > Sounds like you need a big hug - think of this as a great big
cyber
> > > > hug! Hope you have a better day.
>
> > > > Love Josh's Mom
> > > > 5-25-1978 to 11-25-2005
> > > > he jumped- Hide quoted text -
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> > I believe all these stories have everything to do with actual grief.
> > Here's mine; yesterday I was at a local grocery food chain trying to
> > buy ready-to-bake rolls for a family dinner. There were none in the
> > bakery section, so I flagged down the only baker working. I asked
> > about the quickie rolls;he said there were some in his freezer and was
> > about to turn to go get a package for me when a young woman ( I'm 66)
> > came out of nowhere, got in his face demanding a birthday cake. He
> > pointed her in the direction of the cases where they were, and
> > continued to help me. Before the man even left the freezing area, this
> > same woman was back in his face holding a cake demanding that he write
> > "Happy birthday to so- and so on it. At that point I stood between the
> > two and called the woman RUDE. She responded that she had done no such
> > thing. I reminded her that I had been talking to this baker about my
> > problem, and then she told me to "get a life".
>
> > It really threw me for a loop. Since February of 2006, I have been
> > treated for Acute Myelogenous Leukemia, and 18 months ago my only
> > daughter died at the age of 31. I have an ulcer, which I think is
> > understandable, but I don't think I have to be treated this way by a
> > young upstart whose only focus is her own needs when she wishes them.
> > I honestly wanted to haul off and slug her.
>
> > I did not do it. But, it reminded me that I am still mourning, and
> > grieving. It will never completely be gone and my feelings are going
> > to be hurt from time to time. I think I have made tremendous progress.
> > However, this does not excuse the lack of manners and respect from the
> > "Me Generation".
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> I totally agree with you-rude behavior is not needed or wanted...I
> know when I was a teen, I had thought
> the world rotated just around me(lol! winkwink) but have since matured
> but in some of that
> maturing I also came to realize life was not going to be what I
> thought it would be and I also found alot of
> disappointment in many people which is so sad...I have learned to just
> make lemonaide with what lemons
> I have! ;)-ok-who else here said that same thing?
> ((((hugs)))) for you Daisy! and anyone else needing one or many
> ((((hugs))))...
> Jo...Wally's mom- Hide quoted text -
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many more (((hugs))) mentally and in spirit to you too Daisy
and to all here needing one...another day...another (((hug)))...
I always love hearing you speak of your son Buster -heck I even think
his name is neat! ;)
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