WHY WOMEN STAY
Loneliness =A0=A0=A0=A0=A0=A0=A0=A0=A0=A0=A0=A0=A0=A0=A0
Being alone........................What a bunch of Bull$hit that is.
Better alone than
dead. =A0 =A0=A0=A0=A0=A0=A0=A0=A0=A0=A0=A0=A0=A0=A0=A0
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Not being believed..,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,........Who gives a $hit
who believes you? You know it is true. Don't be so stupid.
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Leaving........................................Lazy, you stay because
you too f----- lazy to leave.
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Emotional trauma to children...................................He is
abusing the children you idiot. Don't you care? I guess you don't. You
love him. You need him. =A0=A0=A0=A0=A0=A0=A0=A0=A0=A0=A0=A0=A0=A0=A0
Increased abuse............................Well if you stay he is going
to kill you anyway
stupid.
THEY STAY BECAUSE OF A BELIEF:
No one else will ever love them............................Why do women
need that f------ every night, Can't you live without a man if it means
your child will be safe. =A0=A0=A0=A0=A0
They deserve to be treated abusively
=A0=A0It is Gods plan...........................................I am
just a little ole victim. I am so sweet and I like being a
victim.......You make all of us women look stupid.
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Their husband will change..........................She doesn't really
want him to change .
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They have no other alternatives..............................Oh this is
bull$hit. They have family, but they must stay loyal to the abuser, The
love of their life. =A0=A0=A0=A0=A0=A0=A0=A0=A0=A0=A0=A0=A0=A0
This behavior is normal =A0=A0=A0=A0=A0=A0=A0=A0=A0=A0=A0=A0=A0=A0
They minimize/deny severity of abuse
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life better....................................Slap me once, shame on
you, slap me twice, shame on me I am an idiot.
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Honeymoon stage will continue...............................She loves
the honeymoon stage. She will take a punch in the mouth for this stag.
She gets gifts and can be the little ole victim again.
They can change them self to please him,,,,,,,They do and they love
doing this for him.
The feel guilt over failed marriage.....It is not a failed marriage they
never leave....Don't people get it. WOMEN LOVE THIS. THEY WANT TO BE
VICTIMS. The sooner we admit this the sooner research can be done in how
to help the masochist women
Domestic Violence only happens to poor people...........It is every
where.
All battered women are crazy.....Yes I agree.
Women provoke beatings.........Yes, and they will admit to this.
EMOTIONAL FACTORS:
Guilt=3DIDIOT
Ignorance....This is so true.
Need to feel needed............I want to be a little ole victim.
Feel responsible to him.,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,.....That is a good one.
Confusion..............................My a$$, she knows exactly what is
happening.
Love him
Feels addicted to him....,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,..Yes these women
must have a man drove up their a$$ and a screw every night.
THEY STAY BECAUSE OF REALISTIC CONCERNS:
Lack of job skills.................Get some
Lack of education..................Get some
Loss of financial security..................Go to the family that you
trashed. They will help you.
Childcare problems................................When the abuser kills
your child you will really have problems...god your stupid.
No sup****t from family.............................In most cases family
would be more than willing to help. But she needs her F______ so she
ditches her family.
Lack of police protection,,,,,,,,,,.........My a$$, buy a gun. He/abuser
has one.
Not enough energy to leave..........Just plain lazy.
Society would not understand..........................F--------- Society
Cultural and religious stigma.........................God help us.
No sup****t from friends.......................She doesn't want any.
Danger to her and children...........................They will die
anyway if you stay stupid.
Leaving is possible for those who want
to...............................It certainly is. It is time to grow up,
stand up, stop making women look like and act like helpless little
victims. Of course we will always have the bunch of you that really love
it.
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