WHY WOMEN STAY
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Being alone.......What a bunch of Bull$hit that is. Better alone than
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Not being believed..........Who gives a $hit who believes you? You know
it is true. Don't be so stupid.
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Leaving.........Lazy, you stay because you too f----- lazy to leave.
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Emotional trauma to children...........He is abusing the children you
idiot. Don't you care? I guess you don't. You love him. You need him.
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Increased abuse.......Well if you stay he is going to kill you anyway
stupid.
THEY STAY BECAUSE OF A BELIEF:
No one else will ever love them.......Why do women need that f------
every night, Can't you live without a man if it means your child will be
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They deserve to be treated abusively
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It is Gods plan..........I am just a little ole victim. I am so sweet
and I like being a victim.......You make all of us women look stupid.
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Their husband will change......She doesn't really want him to change .
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They have no other alternatives.......Oh this is bull$hit. They have
family, but they must stay loyal to the abuser, The love of their life.
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They minimize/deny severity of abuse
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life better........Slap me once, shame on
you, slap me twice, shame on me I am an idiot.
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Honeymoon stage will continue........She loves the honey moon stage. She
will take a punch in the mouth for this stag. She gets gifts and can be
the little ole victim again.
They can change them self to please him,,,,,,,They do and they love
doing this for him.
The feel guilt over failed marriage.....It is not a failed marriage they
never leave....Don't people get it. WOMEN LOVE THIS. THEY WANT TO BE
VICTIMS. The sooner we admit this the sooner research can be done in how
to help the masochist women
Domestic Violence only happens to poor people...........It is every
where.
All battered women are crazy.....Yes I agree.
Women provoke beatings.........Yes, and they will admit to this.
EMOTIONAL FACTORS:
Guilt=3DIDIOT
Ignorance....This is so true.
Need to feel needed.....I want to be a little ole victim.
Feel responsible to him......That is a good one.
Confusion......My a$$, she knows exactly what is happening.
Love him
Feels addicted to him......Yes these women must have a man drove up
their a$$ and a screw every night.
THEY STAY BECAUSE OF REALISTIC CONCERNS: Lack of job skills.....Get some
Lack of education.......Get some
Loss of financial security......Go to the family that you trashed. They
will help you.
Childcare problems........When the abuser kills your child you will
really have problems...god your stupid.
No sup****t from family.......In most cases family would be more than
willing to help. But she needs her F______ so she ditches her family.
Lack of police protection.........My a$$
Not enough energy to leave..........Just plain lazy.
Society would not understand........F--------- Society
Cultural and religious stigma.........God help us.
No sup****t from friends........She doesn't want any.
Danger to her and children......They will die anyway if you stay stupid.
Leaving is possible for those who want to........It certainly is. It is
time to grow up, stand up, stop making women look like and act like
helpless little victims. Of course we will always have the bunch of you
that really love it.
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