I have some questions for those out there. My wife and I helped care
for her mother with an aide.
1. My wife is grumpy because she spends substantial time after work
caring for her mother. We can't change this. However, we are getting
more debt as she needs to go on more vacations and get out more.
2. She does not to ask for some additional money, because her mother
will review, discuss, and argue about these things. So I have to deal
with it. How can I get a pair of balls to assert myself.