Carolyn Hax on a husband who's maybe changed his mind about having

http://www.wa****ngtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2008/07/25/AR2008072500743.html

I thought her reference to "going for it" sounded unfair, even "with
full disclosure," but, after all, there's nothing to stop him from
leaving that very day if he wishes. Or, nothing to stop him from
saying, "well then, I'm not sleeping with you any more."

Lenona.